No matter your gender or sexual orientation, everyone has a butthole, and that butthole is packed with sensitive nerve endings that can feel amazing when stimulated.
Anal play is great. There. We said it. Why else would we make so many toys tailored specially for your booty? Also, it should never (EVER) hurt and, with proper preparation and slow progression, can be a completely new (and potentially more intense) way to climax.
Read on to discover our top tips for exploring your back door’s delights in the most pleasurable way possible with adult toys Melbourne.
So, where do you start? If you’re not sure where to begin, visit the shop to view our wide range of Anal Sex Toys.
Given your butt’s day job, it doesn’t take a genius to figure out why anal exploration requires a little more preparation to ensure you’re clean. Being clean isn’t just for hygiene or common courtesy for a partner – knowing that you’re squeaky clean down below helps you (as the receiver) relax and enjoy the experience more, too.
“It’s simple yet effective; it holds enough water to get the job done properly while also leaving you feeling clean.” The tapered nozzle fits simply, and everything is simple to clean when completed.” Chunkyb93 –
For most individuals, being clean means going to the bathroom that day (so there’s no poop ready to escape) and having a nice wash in the bath or shower before using your toy or playing with your spouse. If you’d like to take extra precautions, you can use an anal douche to flush your anus about 45 minutes before play. Check out our guide to learn all the ins and outs of anal douching.
For even more peace of mind and hygiene, you can also choose to use a condom on your anal toy, especially if both you and your partner want to use it. Regardless of who is using it or if it’s been covered with a condom, make sure you give your toy a thorough clean according to its instructions before and after every use.
Get used to the feeling
For the majority of the time, we’re used to stuff coming out of our booty rather than going in so using anal toys can sometimes take a bit of adjustment. Practice touching, stroking, and tapping your finger or toy around and on top of the outside of your anus to see how you like it.
If you’re not into it, all good! Come back and try another day (or don’t). You should never feel uncomfortable or force yourself to do something in the bedroom that you’re not 100% sold on.
You can test the waters like this with a partner but we recommend doing it on your own so you can fully relax and ensure you’re not feeling any pressure to go ahead with it.
Unlike the vagina, the anus does NOT self-lubricate. This implies that while investigating any type of anal penetration, you MUST utilize lubrication. There are no ifs, ands, or buts(t)s! We propose that you use a water-based anal lube.
“I used the lubricant during anal play, and the sensation is fantastic.” I’ve also used it with toys and on my clit when I’m out on my own. It’s a definite winner! It doesn’t leave a sticky residue as some other lubes do, and I’ve found a new favorite.” Mrs. Lafinlas
Water-based lubrication is not only suitable with all sex devices and condoms, but an anal-specific recipe is thicker and lasts longer than conventional lube for improved comfort and enjoyment.
Nothing will tighten your anus and potentially make things uncomfortable for you faster than feeling tense. This is why you’ll want to take some time to loosen up all the muscles in your body. Breathe deeply, touch your other erogenous zones to build arousal, and get into a comfortable position.
Get warmed up
No, we don’t mean star jumps. Warming up for anal play means starting with small, shallow penetration before moving on to something larger and deeper if you should choose to do so.
I got this butt plug as a beginner. “Because it was the size of a finger and I had never used a plug before” My first experience with it was fantastic! The plug was really simple to place and felt pleasant and pleasant. The plug stayed in place and was also extremely simple and straightforward to remove.” – Bella66
When you’re ready for penetration, use a well-lubricated finger to probe softly and gently. This relaxes your anal muscles and prepares them for penetration if you decide to go on to something larger. At this time, many people like to use a tiny, tapered anal toy. A butt plug for beginners is ideal.
Playing with an anal toy can be incredibly enjoyable on its own, but utilizing one does not guarantee anal sex. To truly find what you prefer, try out all of the anal toys available, such as butt plugs, anal beads, anal probers, prostate massagers, and anal vibrators.
“I bought this for my wife because we wanted to try something new. The toys are all adequately sized for beginners, have a high-quality feel, and have no odor. The douche also makes it extremely simple to prepare for anal! Overall, a fantastic starter kit for the price, and I wholeheartedly suggest it!” Richard 29
If you’re having trouble inserting a toy to its full depth (and you want to), add extra lubrication, bear down slightly (yep, as if on the toilet), and softly press on the base of the object. Just keep in mind that the finest toys for novices have a tapered tip and a slim girth and that ALL anal toys should have a flared base to prevent over-insertion.
The muscles in this area will have just clenched if you climaxed while wearing an anal object (especially a butt plug). This means you’ll need to wait a few seconds for the muscles to relax before removing your toy. Adding a touch of lubrication may help your device slip out more effortlessly.
“I adore these! They’re healthy for our bodies and toys after cleaning, and they’re good for the environment! What more could you want? They smell fantastic and leave no aftertaste or residue behind after wiping. When used closely, it does not burn or sting!” Unigirl2020 –
If you’ve properly prepped and used the restroom before playing, it’s quite rare that you’ll face any mess. Don’t be concerned if you discover anything ‘new’ on your toy. Poop is an unavoidable occupational hazard of anal activity. Move on after cleaning yourself and your toy.