It is not surprising that more and more men are interested in improving
their male orgasm. For hundreds of years women have enjoyed the
quest to make their orgasms more enjoyable so it’s only fair that men
get to have better orgasms too!
Men of all ages, races, sexual orientations and walks of life are starting
to become aware of the intense orgasms they can experience from a
prostate orgasm. Not only can men experience extremely strong
orgasms but also enjoy some of the health benefits that a prostate
massage or prostate milking provides.
This book will help to guide you through all of the steps necessary to
enjoy a prostate orgasm by yourself or from the help of your partner.
It is also very important to point out that if you have had unsatisfactory
“typical” male orgasms or erection problems that it does not mean you
will not have tremendous prostate orgasms.
The stimulation to the prostate has nothing to do with your penis or to
ejaculate. You don’t even have to have an erection to experience a
prostate orgasm although men will combine a prostate orgasm with
masturbation to have orgasms so intense your toes will curl!
I must state right now that just because you enjoy a prostate orgasm
that has nothing to do with your sexual orientation.
Men that are either heterosexual or homosexual or even bisexual will
experience the same intense prostate orgasms. Just because you enjoy
a great prostate orgasm does not mean it will change who you are
personally or sexually, it just adds to your overall sexual fulfillment.
Anus– in the crudest terms this is your “butt hole”. It is connected to your
rectum and is how your stools exit your body. Despite the dirty job of your
anus is contains millions of very sensitive nerve endings give intense sexual
pleasure through penetration (anal sex).
Aneros-The most popular prostate stimulator available today. Comes in a
variety of sizes and shapes for beginners and advanced users.
Prostate Massage-Either an internal or external stimulation with the
Prostate Milking-This is an internal prostate massage achieved by
stimulating the prostate by either a finger or a prostate massage device.
Prostate Orgasm-An orgasm that originated from direct stimulation of
the prostate and does not necessarily involve ejaculation.
Prostate Stimulation-Internally or externally stimulating the prostate
through touch, massage, or by a prostate stimulation device.
Rectum-This is the lower part of the colon and large intestine that
is connected to the anus.
Penis- The penis contains two chambers, the corpora cavernosa, which
runs the length of the organ. These are filled with spongy tissue and
surrounded by a membrane called the tunica albuginea. The spongy
tissue contains smooth muscles, fibrous tissues, spaces, veins, and
arteries. The urethra, which is the channel for urine and ejaculate, runs
along the underside of the corpora cavernosa. The urethra emerges at
the glans, the rounded tip of the penis.
Prostate- The prostate is a tiny gland found only is men and is a very
important part of the male reproductive system. The prostate is about
the size of a walnut and is located underneath the bladder, just in front
of the rectum. The prostate’s function is to assist in the manufacture of
semen which is the milky colored fluid that transports sperm from your
testicles through your penis when you ejaculate.
Scrotum – The function of the scrotum to keep the testes at a
temperature slightly lower than that of the rest of the body. For the
human, a temperature around 34.4 degrees Celsius (94 degrees
Fahrenheit) seems to be ideal; 36.7 degrees Celsius (98 degree
Fahrenheit) may be damaging to sperm count. The temperature is
controlled by moving the testicles closer to the abdomen when it is cold,
and away when hot. This is done by the contracting and relaxing of the
cremaster muscle in the abdomen and the dartos fascia (muscular tissue
under the skin) in the scrotum.
In most biological males, the cremaster muscle itself cannot be
controlled voluntarily. Contraction of the abdominal muscles, and
changes in intraabdominal pressure, often can lift and lower the testicles
within the scrotum. Contraction of the muscle fibers of the dartos tunic
(or fascia) is completely involuntary and results in the appearance of
increased wrinkling and thickening of the scrotal skin. The testicles are
not directly attached to the skin of the scrotum, so this dartos
contraction results in their sliding toward the abdomen.
Prostate Health From Prostate Stimulation
Prostate Massage has literally “exploded” into mainstream culture in the
last few years as men are discovering the pleasure of finding out about
their “male g-spot”.
Prostate massage is generally safe for all healthy men however cautions
need to be taken to ensure the experience is pleasurable and not
painful. Many recent scientific studies in the last few years have shown
that prostate massage can be very beneficial for prostate health. These
studies have shown that prostate milking can help to relieve the
symptoms of an enlarged prostate or persistent prostate infections. So,
not only can you enjoy the pleasure of the ultimate male sexual
experience but also help to keep your prostate happy and healthy.
The prostate is a tiny gland found only is men and is a very important
part of the male reproductive system. The prostate is about the size of a
walnut and is located underneath the bladder, just in front of the
rectum. The prostate’s function is to assist in the manufacture of semen
which is the milky colored fluid that transports sperm from your testicles
through your penis when you ejaculate.
While the prostate primary function is to help in the manufacture of
semen it is also becoming know as a sexual gland for men also. Typically
we only associate the penis for men as a sexual organ but for many men
the prostate is the secret for true sexual fulfillment. Not surprising, the
prostate is quickly becoming know as the “male g-spot” as many men of
all ages, races and sexual orientations are learning about the sexual and
health benefits associated with prostate milking or prostate massage.
Prostate massage can be carried out by your doctor or medical
practitioner as an effective treatment for chronic prostatitis and benign
prostatic hyperplasia (BPH). This procedure can help to drain the highly
painful build up of seminal fluid in men with a chronically inflamed
prostate. While beneficial for some individuals, prostate milking it is NOT
advisable for men with acute prostatitis as a prostate massage may for
allow the prostate infection to spread to other parts of the body.
Preparing For Your Prostate Massage Or Prostate Milking
Are you ready to start exploring?? One thing you must remember that is
very, very important is to take your time and relax before you start on your
Before you start we should discuss cleanliness in regards to your bowel. In
general you colon should be at it cleanest after you have experienced a
bowel movement however I would recommend you leave a time window of
approx 2 hours after a bowel movement and definitely do not try to
stimulate your prostate if you think you are going to have a bowel
movement or else you might get a finger full of faeces or bowel movement.
I would strongly, strongly suggest that you use a latex glove on your hand before you insert your finger into you anal cavity. Your rectum maintains a sensitive bacteria balance as well as was never really designed for things to go up it. Your rectum and colon while durable for normal body functions is actually quite delicate and a finger or object shoved up without proper cautions can create tears or scrapes in your rectum or colon which could bring about serious health problems.
As well I would suggest keeping your fingernails or partner’s fingernails very
short as longer nails will tear the later glove. I must also stress DO NOT stick
anything up your anus that is sharp, too large or breakable unless you want
to end up at your local hospital in a very embarrassing situation!
You must keep in mind that one of the keys to having a successful prostate
massage or milking is being able to relax which in turn helps to relax your
anus. If you are tense or stressed your anus will be so tight that any
penetration will be extremely painful. Do not be seduced by porn
movies that you have seen that either a male or female is being penetrated
anally and it looks so easy and pleasurable. Like anything else it takes proper
planning and experience so start off slow and gradually work your way up.
There are a number of prostate massage toys or prostate stimulators that
you can use that are very, very effective if you don’t want to use your finger
to stimulate your prostate. Refer to the chapter later in this book for
information on how to use them as well as the ones that work the best.
You can never actually directly touch your prostate however the closest
access in through your anus and up your rectum. Even though you cannot
directly touch your prostate it is still very sensitive and highly stimulated by
rubbing or applying pressure in the proper areas as there is only a thin layer
of tissue separating you from directly touching your prostate. When your
prostate is stimulated you may feel the same feelings as you would when
you would ejaculate.
Many men won’t ejaculate through a prostate orgasm however it feels like
that is what is exactly happening. If you are looking to really increase your
orgasms intensity and duration you can combine masturbation with prostate
Beginner Tips To Your Anal Area
Fingering the anus and opening area is usually the very first
experimentation into stimulating your prostate. This allows you to get
use to these new sensations and will help you to be able to relax with
prostate massage. A well lubricated finger is a very good size for sliding
into the anus.
So, slowly slip just the tip of a finger into the anus, and just slowly
wriggle it a little. This can be very pleasurable just by itself, you often
don’t need to go any deeper. The anus has lots of nerve endings right
near the entrance, so often around and just inside is as far as you need
to go. You may want to stop at this point or continue, it depends on your
comfort level. I would suggest trying this a few times over a period of a
couple of days so you get familiar with the new sensations. Then
perhaps try it a little deeper, up to the second knuckle. You’ll often then
be able to reach the prostate gland at this point.
The pleasures found there are many, and outside the scope of this
particular guide! As you progress with finger play you may find yourself
going very deep, whole finger is not a problem, there’s enough room up
there. You may even start experimenting with more than one finger, or
a thumb. You’ll start feeling the benefits of feeling ‘full’, and feeling that
anus being stretched a little. Again, there’s no rush, and only try
whatever you feel, keep it pleasurable. You may then wish to try sex
toys, these can offer a whole new set of experiences, sizes and shapes
that fingers can’t provide.
Four Things You Must Always Do
- Make sure you are relaxed.
- Cleanliness-these means latex gloves and proper clean-up after.
- Use lubrication and lots of it.
- Practice-like anything you have to work to achieve your ultimate male
Three You Must NEVER Do
- Never force anything up you anus that is sharp or could break
- Never put anything organic(food, fruit, etc) up your anus
- Never put anything too large up your anus
All About Lubrication
As we discussed earlier your anus, rectum and colon are sensitive organs
and must be treated with respect or you will pay the price in pain. A good
quality anal lubricant is a must with inserting anything whether it is your
finger or a toy.
Don’t forget if things are drying out at any point it is a lot easier to add some
more lubrication than to suffer pain from a tear or cut to your anus or
rectum. A good rule of thumb is to always use more lubrication than you
think is necessary.
Prostate Massage Yourself Tips
In an upcoming chapter we will discuss step by step how to massage or milk
yourself. Massaging or milking yourself can often be slightly difficult by
yourself especially if you are overweight. The reason for this is how you must
position your body as well as using your finger to massage your prostate.
That being said our step by step course will help you achieve awesome
prostate orgasms you just have to practice and have some patience.
If you have tried to manually(with your finger) to stimulate your prostate
and are getting frustrated by your lack of progress I would highly
recommend getting a prostate massage toy.
Remember to take your time and do not get frustrated if your not getting the
results you expect in the beginning.
Having A Partner Help You
If you have access to a partner that will assist you in your massage or
milking I hope they are reading this book with you. Many men will find it is
much easier to have someone give them a hand (or a finger) to assist in the
massage or milking.
While your partner is performing your massage or milking this allows yourself to give full attention to the waves of pleasure flowing through your body. As well, it makes it easier for you to focus on masturbating or massaging your penis to REALLY bring your male orgasm to the next level.
For many men it is the combination of prostate stimulation WITH masturbation that gives an orgasm almost too intense.
The Difference Between A Prostate Massage And A Prostate
What is the difference between a prostate milking and a prostate
massage? A prostate milking is achieved by inserting a prostate
stimulator or a finger into the male rectum to stimulate the prostate. A
prostate massage is exactly the same however you can also perform an
external prostate massage. Prostate milking is the term someone who is
interested in BDSM sexual activities may use. “BDSM” is an acronym of
“B&D” (Bondage & Discipline), “D&S” (Dominance & Submission), and
“S&M” (sadomasochism). “BDSM” refers to any or all of these things,
and a lot of stuff besides. An external prostate massage might feel great
for men but usually doesn’t offer the same health benefits as a prostate
milking or internal prostate massage.
So for all purposes we can use the terms prostate massage and prostate
An external prostate massage is easy to do by yourself or with the help
of your partner. First you should lie on your back and put your knees up.
It is also helpful if you can bring the soles of your feet together. This
helps to expose the perineum. The perineum is the area below the
scrotum but above your anus. Take a finger and feel around this area
until you feel the direction of the muscles change. Some males can feel
a firm lump in this area or a spot that is sensitive or slightly tender to
Using your index and middle fingertips, rub or gently press this area,
starting with a circulation motion. You can experiment with different
motions such as figure eights to see which motions you enjoy the most.
One must take care not to use too much pressure as this could result in
possible prostate damage. You can experiment with different amounts of
pressure as well as different motions to find what is most enjoyable for
yourself. You should never perform a prostate milking or an internal or
external prostate massage if you have prostate problems unless you
have first consulted with your physician or medical practitioner.
Prostate Stimulation-The Basics
Whether you find yourself curious about or confronted by the idea of
prostate stimulation, it truly can widen your sexual horizons
considerably. Prostate stimulation can greatly increase your sexual
pleasure, and offer you greater control over your orgasms and give you
a unique ability to connect with your partner.
Your prostate and anal sphincter is the reason for your prostate orgasm.
The stronger the contractions of your prostate, the stronger your orgasm
Since your prostate can’t be touched directly, prostate stimulation is
easiest and often most pleasurable when done internally through
pressure to the wall of your anus.
However stimulating the prostate is also possible externally through the
wall of your perineum (the soft, smooth area between your anus and
testicles), or through contractions of your PC muscles as mentioned in a
The prostate is highly sensitive to stimulation and pressure, and offer
sensations are similar to those felt during ejaculation – since that is
when the prostate usually comes into play as it pumps semen.
Since the anus itself is also filled with many nerve endings, it can be
pleasurable as well. The good product for anal stimulation is the Aneros. It is specially designed to fit gently in your anus,
and can either be kept in place or can be moved around for amazing
prostate stimulation. You can use it yourself for prostate masturbation,
with someone else for prostate massage or during sex.
In order to explore the prostate, it is important to be relaxed,
comfortable and playful. You may discover you prefer to have your
prostate stimulated only when already hot and aroused, or you may find
you can have an orgasm from anal stimulation alone.
Prostate Orgasm Introduction
A prostate orgasm is an intense, full-bodied, and often does not include
ejaculation. When you orgasm by stimulating the prostate, orgasm and
ejaculation can be two separate things.
Several nice side benefits of prostate orgasm include being able to have
multiple or continuous orgasms, heightened sexual awareness, greater
overall health, as well as being able to be more in synch with and
connected to your partner.
Having multiple or continuous orgasms means that you can have several
orgasms, one after the other, without a recovery period between
orgasms. Being a multi-orgasmic man means you do not lose your
erection between orgasms, you do not have a complete dip in your
sexual arousal level, nor do you experience the fatigue that often comes
Sexual arousal and response patterns are similar for male and females –
the difference is male ejaculation. Likely you have heard of women being
blessed with having the potential to be multi-orgasmic, but with some
training and practice, the same can be true for you.
Many men consider ejaculation to be the one and the same as orgasm,
as well as the focus or “end game” of sexual pleasure. Prostate orgasm
allows you to shift your focus to the entire process and experience of
Prostate orgasm, multiple orgasms, or orgasm without ejaculation offers
sexual experiences that are more satisfying to you, as well as to your
partner. It can shift your arousal pattern and can allow you to be a
greater sexual and emotional match with your partner.